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How to have a wedding at an Airbnb: a complete guide

Planning a wedding can be a whirlwind of decisions, from choosing the perfect venue to managing guest accommodations. Increasingly, couples are turning to unique options like Airbnb for weddings, offering a more personalised and often more affordable experience. But navigating the world of Airbnb weddings requires careful planning and consideration. This comprehensive guide will walk you through everything you need to know, from finding the right property to ensuring a seamless and memorable celebration with a wedding app.

Can you have a wedding at an Airbnb?

The short answer is yes, you can have a wedding at an Airbnb, but with some important caveats. While Airbnb doesn't specifically cater to weddings in the same way as traditional venues, many hosts are open to the idea, provided certain conditions are met. It's crucial to be upfront with the host about your plans from the outset. For example, many couples have successfully hosted smaller, intimate weddings at Airbnbs, leveraging the unique charm and privacy these properties can offer. One couple, for instance, documented their rustic-chic Airbnb wedding in the Californian countryside, highlighting the flexibility and cost-effectiveness of this approach. However, it's not always a guaranteed option, and requires careful communication and planning.

Pros and cons of having a wedding at an Airbnb

Pros Cons
More cost-effective than traditional weddings Many hosts don't allow weddings or have strict restrictions
Greater control over décor and atmosphere Requires significant DIY planning and coordination
Private and intimate setting May lack essential amenities (kitchen space, parking, etc.)
Flexible timeline and activities Insurance and liability concerns
Access to unique and stunning locations Higher risk of unpredictable issues

Choosing an Airbnb for your wedding offers a unique set of advantages and disadvantages:

Pros:

  • Cost-effectiveness: Airbnb weddings can often be more budget-friendly than traditional venues.
  • Personalisation: you have more control over the décor, layout, and overall atmosphere.
  • Privacy: many Airbnb properties offer a secluded and intimate setting.
  • Flexibility: you can often customise your wedding timeline and activities to suit your needs.
  • Unique locations: Airbnbs can offer access to stunning and unconventional settings.

Cons:

  • Host restrictions: not all hosts allow weddings, and there may be limitations on guest numbers or noise levels.
  • Logistics: planning an Airbnb wedding requires more DIY effort, from arranging catering to managing rentals.
  • Amenities: Airbnbs may not have all the amenities of a traditional venue, such as a large kitchen or ample parking.
  • Liability: it's essential to understand the host's insurance coverage and your own liability in case of accidents or damage.
  • Unpredictability: unlike established venues, Airbnb properties can sometimes have unforeseen issues that might impact your wedding plans.

Wedding at Airbnb vs. Vrbo

Both Airbnb and Vrbo offer properties suitable for weddings, but there are some key differences to consider. While both platforms have properties that can host events, Vrbo tends to have a greater selection of larger homes that may be more suitable for bigger gatherings. Anecdotal evidence from online forums suggests that Vrbo hosts might be slightly more open to hosting events, but this isn't a hard and fast rule. 

Ultimately, the best platform for you will depend on your specific needs and the type of property you're looking for. It's always recommended to contact hosts directly on both platforms to discuss your wedding plans.

How much do Airbnb weddings cost on average?

The cost of an Airbnb wedding can vary significantly depending on several factors:

  • Rental fees: these vary greatly depending on the property size, location, and season.
  • Cleaning fees: hosts typically charge a cleaning fee, which may be higher for events.
  • Security deposits: a security deposit is usually required and may be substantial for weddings.
  • Cancellation policies: understand the cancellation policy before booking, as wedding plans can change.
  • Wedding-related costs: these include catering, décor, photography, and other vendor fees, which are similar to traditional weddings.

While it's difficult to give an average cost, many couples find that an Airbnb wedding can be significantly cheaper than a traditional venue, especially for smaller, more intimate celebrations.

How to have a wedding at an Airbnb?

Planning an Airbnb wedding requires a systematic approach. Here's a step-by-step guide:

1. Find the right Airbnb property for a wedding

Start your search by filtering for properties that can accommodate your guest count and desired amenities. Look for keywords like "events allowed" or "large groups". Browse photos and read reviews carefully to get a sense of the property's suitability for a wedding.
Pro tip: check out our wedding checklist guide.

2. Check whether it is allowed to have a wedding at the property

Contact the host directly and be transparent about your wedding plans. Ask specifically if they allow weddings and what their rules and restrictions are.

3. Check noise ordinances and restrictions in the area

Research local noise ordinances and any restrictions that might affect your wedding. This is crucial to avoid fines or complaints.

4. Decide on the number of guests

Your guest count will influence the size of the property you need and the overall cost of your wedding.
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5. Plan the length of the wedding

Consider how long you'll need the property for, including setup, the ceremony, reception, and cleanup.

6. Evaluate your budget

Create a detailed budget that includes all costs, from the Airbnb rental to vendor fees.

7. Check the surroundings of the location

Assess the surrounding area for parking, accessibility for guests, and potential noise concerns for neighbours.

8. Check the Airbnb size for accommodations

If you plan to have guests stay overnight, ensure the property has enough bedrooms and bathrooms.

9. Plan for catering, food, or a private chef

Arrange catering, food, or a private chef, considering the kitchen facilities available at the Airbnb.

10. Think about décor, suppliers and rentals

Plan your décor, hire suppliers (florists, DJs, etc.), and arrange for any necessary rentals (tables, chairs, etc.).
Pro tip: discover our 30 wedding planning tips here.

11. Check and rent amenities for the wedding

Determine what amenities you'll need for the wedding, such as a dance floor, stage, or sound system, and arrange for rentals.

12. Prepare activities and the program for the wedding

Plan the flow of your wedding, including the ceremony, reception, and any activities you have planned.

13. Have a wedding coordinator

Consider hiring a wedding coordinator to help manage the logistics of an Airbnb wedding.

14. Hire a photographer

Book a photographer to capture the special moments of your wedding.

15. Secure a cleaning service

Arrange for a cleaning service after the wedding to ensure the property is returned in good condition.

16. Use a digital guidebook as your Airbnb wedding app

A Touch Stay digital guidebook can be invaluable for an Airbnb wedding. It allows you to provide guests with all the essential information they need, from the attendee list instructions to local recommendations on the best places to stay and eat. This reduces the number of questions you receive and ensures a smoother experience for everyone. 

 

 Airbnb guidebook

A digital guidebook can be used by couples and wedding planners alike, and include specific instructions related to the wedding, such as parking information, supplier access, and cleanup procedures. This centralised information hub can streamline communication and minimise confusion.

Final thoughts

Planning an Airbnb wedding requires careful consideration and attention to detail. By following these steps and utilising resources like Touch Stay's digital guidebooks, you can create a unique and memorable wedding experience. Remember to communicate openly with your host, plan for contingencies, and embrace the flexibility that an Airbnb wedding offers. With thorough preparation, your Airbnb wedding can be everything you've dreamed of and more.

Remember, the key to a successful Airbnb wedding lies in meticulous planning and clear communication. Don't hesitate to ask your host questions, and leverage the resources available to you, including online forums, wedding planning websites, and digital tools like Touch Stay. 

Ready to create a truly special and personalised wedding experience at an Airbnb?

 

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Ned

Ned has clocked up over 11 years in digital marketing and comms, with a strong focus on creating engaging content for a range of brands and agencies. When he’s not writing, he can be found digging for records, peering through his telescope at the night sky, or onboard his local lifeboat where he volunteers as a crewmember.

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